One of the most interesting things in this world is when we come to a place of peace and understanding. There is a saying “Just because we are the same does not mean we are equals”. On the surface, it would seem like a simple concept – but trust that it runs much deeper than… Read more »
Posts Categorized: Confessions
Seven Costly “Sins” In Relationships
When talking about relationships on any level, it is important to give serious thought to all the costs associated with relationships on any level. Whether we like to admit it or not, relationships have costs. Unfortunately, we don’t always consider that the costs vary depending on the relationship and how the other person feels and… Read more »
Cosby, The Man I Used To Admire
This column is tough for me. It took me time to even type the first word to start this for about two weeks or so. Then when the new info came out about Dr. Bill Cosby and his deposition. I was shocked to say the least after reading the things I read Mr. Cosby had… Read more »
The Soul Of A Woman
One of the beauties of the interaction between men and women is that when we allow ourselves, we can gain a deeper knowledge base of each other’s inner workings. Of course, will we never completely understand every idiosyncrasy about each other but that is a part of what makes this thing called life incredibly interesting…. Read more »
Letter To My Future Daughter
Dear My Future Daughter, It’s your daddy. I am so excited to be writing this letter to you even though it will be a few years before you’ll be able to read it by yourself. For now, I’ll lean on your mommy to read it to you. Where do I begin? Well, by the time… Read more »
A Letter To My Daughter
To my daughter, I am fortunate to have had only one of you. This is for two reasons. One, if I had to two daughters, I would be killing or threatening twice as many people on a daily basis. Secondly, how do you tell two women that they are the most beautiful you’ve ever… Read more »
What Women Always Wanted To Know About Men Part III
The women of today seem to be intrigued with the what, why, and how of the many motives as to why do us men conduct ourselves in certain mannerisms. I will attempt to be exact with all of my explanations to these five questions. Question 11 Why do men constantly adjusting their private member, whether… Read more »
Divorce And Its Aftermath If You Were Cheated On
Most men can’t relate to this topic (or can they?). It’s taboo almost, if you ask me. As the title states, “divorce and its aftermath if you were cheated on”! This topic is fragile because most men are ashamed to admit it! I was living a secret horror movie for 17 years of a LIFE… Read more »
Loyalty
I am going to address a very close and personal topic to me that moves my soul in its complete entirety in this week’s blog. There are many forms of the term “Loyalty”, but I want to speak with the fathers out there today. When I say loyalty I am referring to that in which… Read more »
Can Hurt Be Loved Away?
If you are like most guys who have dated more than one woman in your lifetime, chances are you’ve dated someone else’s ex. This is the nature of the world we live in – relationships end and new ones start every day. Life goes on and in some cases, hurt goes on with it. It… Read more »
What Women Always Wanted To Know About Men Part II
Part II of these much debated questions that women have asked me to address on why men do certain things that we do. Question 6 Why do men always watch porn, when they could have a perfectly good woman at home to make love to? This question always seems to arise in all debates between… Read more »
Letter To My Future Wife
Dear My Future Wife, How are you? I hope this letter finds you well and in a space to receive it. I can only imagine what you may be thinking at this point. Your thoughts may range from “Why is he writing a letter to me when he probably hasn’t met me yet” to “Why… Read more »
10 Things Guys Don’t Care About
You’ve had the longest day at work and all you desire is to get home, eat, maybe watch a bit of television, and sleep. Yet, when you walk in the door, you are immediately barraged with all these crazy questions. Now, these questions are crazy to you but they would never be crazy to her…. Read more »
Talking To An Ex Is Pointless
I realized that talking to my ex-girlfriend is pointless and truly a waist of my time overall. I have no intention of getting back together with her at all — ever. I’m moving on with my life. I’ve never been a fan of the idea of men and women remaining close friends after a breakup,… Read more »
She Cheated On You – Whore Or More?
Often times, we talk about cheating from a male perspective centered around his inability to stay faithful to one woman. But what happens when the tables are turned and she cheats on you. What do you do? How do you feel? Let me begin by saying that I have never knowingly been cheated on by… Read more »
New Jerk City
Are you a jerk? If so, do you realize you are? Do you act like an incorrigible douchebag for no reason at all? Does your behavior turn women off? If the answer to any of the previous questions is yes, welcome to New Jerk City, where all jerks are encouraged to find out what makes… Read more »
No More Catering To Women
My days of catering to women are officially over (at least for now). I just don’t have the time. No more going out of my way to please or satisfy anyone in particular. No more jumping through hoops or going that extra mile. I am off the market until further notice. I’m cool with dating… Read more »
Right Relationship With The Wrong Partner
I say this not to offend nor hurt anyone feelings in particular, but there are times or situations where we may feel we that we are mentally ready for a strong meaningful and monogamous relationship with all of its essence, and have possibly chosen the wrong woman. Now hear me out for a few minutes as I… Read more »
I Think I Love My Lady: How To Cheat On Your Girl
One of the saddest things in the world is to have a guy get caught cheating on his girl. Often when he gets caught it is for the dumbest of reasons. You’ve heard the excuses. You need help – you don’t want to get caught cheating on your girl. Never fear – we are here to… Read more »
6 Reasons I Can’t Date A Big Girl
Dating big women is a common subject within the single male community these days. Some guys enjoy them and some don’t. However, in order to give them power and confidence the term “BBW” has been coined. I don’t agree with this term because all big women aren’t beautiful. Some are just down right disgusting. I… Read more »