It is not uncommon to hear someone talk about a significant other – good or bad. Whether it’s about the kind of person they are or the things they do or the way they make them feel, most are not afraid on any level to discuss a significant other with anyone from a close friend… Read more »
Posts Categorized: Dating
The “Double-Back”: The Second Time Around In A Relationship
The demise of relationships is inevitable whether by death, dissolution or divorce. Obviously, there is no coming back from death (unless you are Jesus Christ or Lazarus and I don’t know if either of them had a girlfriend). But what happens when a relationship reaches its conclusion and sometime down the line, you decide to… Read more »
After The Love Is Gone
The “Far More” vs The “Care Less” One of the strangest feelings is to be a relationship where there is a pronounced love imbalance. A love imbalance simply is when one person is far more into their significant other than the significant other is into them. For the sake of this piece, we will refer… Read more »
How To Be A Good Wingman
Since the beginning of time, man has been able to accomplish far more together than alone. For example, if you were going to attack a bear two men would stand a far better chance. It’s a simple numbers game. However, in order to be successful in taking down said bear, you must work as a… Read more »
Seven Costly “Sins” In Relationships
When talking about relationships on any level, it is important to give serious thought to all the costs associated with relationships on any level. Whether we like to admit it or not, relationships have costs. Unfortunately, we don’t always consider that the costs vary depending on the relationship and how the other person feels and… Read more »
Relationship Rules For Peace During Football Season
Football season is upon us – what a glorious time of year. The sound of crowds cheering, pads colliding and helmets cracking is back. Order has been restored to the universe as we know it. But alas, the season can’t be perfect. There is an outlier among us. A heated force that must be addressed… Read more »
When “Love” Doesn’t Love You
Love. A four letter word that carries a great deal of weight whenever it is uttered from the human lips. Its mere mention can cause a smile. The pursuit of it can bring great joy. It can be the source of the highest highs and constant moments of happiness. But what happens when you think… Read more »
How To Control Your Team
Every team has integral parts that make it successful. From the locker room leaders, to the star, to the role players who are very good at one particular piece, everyone contributes to the success. The coaching however, must be flawless. As a coach you must properly place players in positions, actively rotate players on and… Read more »
Rules For Dating An Older Woman
It is not uncommon in the dating scene to come across some incredibly beautiful women. There is something to be said for meeting a woman whose physical beauty transcends age. Take Jennifer Lopez or Halle Berry. Both women are in their late 40s by birthdate but hold it down like some women who are half… Read more »
How Women Take The Wheel
If you are a man, you will think about sex and the attractiveness of the opposite sex very often. It doesn’t matter where you are. It can be at the grocery store, mall, hospital, car wash, hell even the dental office. Wherever attractive women will conjugate, trust that there are a pair of beady men… Read more »
Tragedy & Comedy
Over the years, my dating life has seen it’s share of both these masks. If you are unfamiliar with them they are comedy and tragedy. Greek in nature and linked to a variety of early plays from Shakespearean theater. A great example is Hamlet in which everyone dies and there is no happy ending, a… Read more »
Me And My Crazy World
One of the most interesting things about being a single man is when you come to realization that you have options of to choose who and how you want to date. Let’s be real – the world is filled with a bevy of beautiful women desiring and waiting for the right guy to come along… Read more »
Love Or Lust? 5 Signs To Tell If You’re In Love Or Lust
Most humans enjoy the pleasurable act of sex, some more than others. Some let sex control the decisions relating to relationships such as who they date, marry, or have casual sex with. One thing humans can’t do is enter the mind of the person they’re involved with. In any type of relationship, the one thing… Read more »
The Do’s & Don’ts Of The First Date
The first date is something we all dread. You went through that first process of getting the phone number or making contact to set up the date, in which a woman can change her mind and decide she’s not interested anymore. Yep, just like that. In a 24 hour period you can go from the… Read more »
What Women Always Wanted To Know About Men Part III
The women of today seem to be intrigued with the what, why, and how of the many motives as to why do us men conduct ourselves in certain mannerisms. I will attempt to be exact with all of my explanations to these five questions. Question 11 Why do men constantly adjusting their private member, whether… Read more »
Beware Of… The Damaged Woman – Part 2
In part 1, I broke down a few rules to assist with avoiding the damaged woman as much as possible. Speaking for myself, I am a magnet for these types of women and had to force myself to follow these rules to avoid self inflicted stress. Many people in my life have identified me as… Read more »
Can Hurt Be Loved Away?
If you are like most guys who have dated more than one woman in your lifetime, chances are you’ve dated someone else’s ex. This is the nature of the world we live in – relationships end and new ones start every day. Life goes on and in some cases, hurt goes on with it. It… Read more »
Beware Of… The Damaged Woman – Part 1
We all have our issues. Some more than others obviously, but issues nonetheless. However, there are many women out there bringing past issues to the table that have destroyed them inside and have never allowed them to rebuild internally. In some cases it is impossible to site these issues from the start. I’ve come to… Read more »
5 Keys To Asking A Woman Out
Pop quiz: “What’s the correct way to ask a woman out on a date?” Trust me, it’s ok if you don’t have an answer to the question. Here’s some truth: the average man has been approaching women since the age of 12 (and for some of us, that age was much earlier). And despite YEARS of practice, we… Read more »
Dating As A Guy With Kids
A recent event has brought me to the point of asking, “Is it harder for a single mom to find a significant other, or a guy still doing his fatherly duties (guy with kids) to find a partner?” Many people automatically jump into the corner of the single mother because they sympathize with her plight… Read more »