Women That Are Out Of Your League

Have you ever seen a beautiful woman and thought to yourself, “She’s out of my league?” Let’s take Kim Kardashian for example, do you think you could win her over? Would you consider her to be an easy catch? Why would she want you and what would be the deciding factor? Would it be your personality, your looks, your status or your confidence, maybe? Or could it be all of the above?

If I had to choose one, I think the answer is confidence. For me, I believe that money and wealth increases a man’s status. His status creates stability and builds confidence. Confidence brings out personality and style. A stylish man looks good. Deion Sanders said it best, “If you look good, you feel good, If you feel good, you play good, If you play good, they pay good”. In our case, it pays to have self-confidence.

The woman that you think is out of your league is usually self-confident and comfortable in her own skin. She may be witty and outgoing, fashionable and intelligent, powerful and sexy — a woman who embraces her femininity. It may appear or even feel as though she has the power to subdue you. But is it literally just a sex thing? Could it be because of her social status? Is it because she makes more money than you? If she is out of your league, where does that leave you? No man on the face of this earth wants to feel inadequate. We also shouldn’t have to feel as though it’s a competition, just because society says so. At the end of the day, we are all human. We all breathe the same air.

What makes Kim Kardashian, or any famous celebrity for that matter, better than you? There are millions of women out there that are just as beautiful as Kim. Wait. There are millions of women that look better than Kim. I think the problem is, in our mind, we associate women that look, act and dress a certain way with celebrities, public figures and socialites in the media — the high maintenance factor. We subconsciously place these women on pedestals as if they are things to worship. They aren’t. It is never wise to worship a woman for two reasons. 1) You will never get her. 2) You will never keep her.

There is no such thing as women that are out of your league and here’s why. Things are constantly changing around you, including people, your thoughts and ideas. Where you are today, isn’t necessarily where you’ll be tomorrow — mentally, physically and spiritually. We are constantly evolving to become better people. To a college football player, professional football is temporary out of his league. It’s a process that takes time but one day you will get there. Do not allow yourself to be intimidated by women or to think that any woman is out of your league. Do yourself and favor and erase the thought. Instead, imagine yourself with her. She’s yours. Challenge yourself to approach and physically talk to every woman who you once thought was out of your league. The results may surprise you.