Dating big women is a common subject within the single male community these days. Some guys enjoy them and some don’t. However, in order to give them power and confidence the term “BBW” has been coined. I don’t agree with this term because all big women aren’t beautiful. Some are just down right disgusting. I know it, you know it, many people just refuse to accept it. I’ve messed around with a few big women and I just don’t prefer them. Many big girls try to force themselves onto you like you’re missing something but that just makes it worse. I don’t care if people choose to be fat. It’s your life, do what you want with it. Besides the health problems, movement problems, joint problems, and all the other issues that come with being fat, I just don’t want to deal with them. I don’t want my partner to deal with them either. I know many people will say, “It’s what’s on the inside that counts.” That is true, but physical attraction is still a huge part of it. That initial attraction is what causes you to want to approach a woman in the first place. Very few things are worse than a sloppy fat chick all in your face trying to tell you how good her vagina is. When you are down and out and need a reset to clear your bad sex karma, big girls are definitely great for that. Need a good BJ, usually no one is better than a big girl. After experiencing big women, I’ve come up with several reasons why I could never have a serious relationship with one.
#1 Being Fat Is A Way Of Life
Of course, some people have a hard time losing weight. However, it’s always in your control (unless you have a medical condition) on how healthy you eat, how much you work out, and overall how well you take care of yourself. Being a fat girl/guy is a lifestyle choice, one that I’m just not into.
I’m a big fan of the cowgirl positions. These include, but are not limited to regular cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, and Asian cowgirl. It’s really difficult to have a bigger woman do these positions. First off, having her smash down on my pelvis with all that weight is not sexually stimulating for me. Second, most big women just tend to be lazy in bed because that’s a lot of weight for them to move around. If your sex life is mostly about missionary and doggy style then this could work for you.
I like working out. It’s something I do not only because of my job, but also because I don’t want to gain excessive weight. I like my partner to share in my hobbies and if working out is not even a small interest of hers then we probably don’t have a future.
#4 Nudity & Appearance
I commonly walk around my house naked. Not because I have some obsession with my own body, but because I’m comfortable doing so. I would expect my significant other to be comfortable as well and personally I would want to enjoy it. To me, there is just nothing sexy about a naked fat woman.
#5 The Beach
I like to go to the beach. I like the sand between my toes. I like for the sun to hit my face and watch my woman walk around in a bikini. Most big women are not comfortable doing this at all. I’ve recently met a bigger woman and I asked her about going to an indoor pool with me and she said, “ I don’t like to show off my body.” It obviously made her uncomfortable to talk about it and her confidence is not as high as it should be. However, she doesn’t think she needs to work out at all.
I’m not going to say that all big women stink or anything like that. What I will say is that when you are bigger you sweat easier and it’s usually more profusely than normal. Cleaning yourself and keeping yourself clean is more difficult than an average size person. I mean just think about wiping after a number 2. It’s a lot harder to clean the insides of huge cheeks than it is to clean the insides of small cheeks. It’s almost guaranteed that something will get missed. Not because of a non thorough cleaning, just because it’s a significant amount of surface area. The last thing I ever want to smell when I’m on my way to the vagina or near it is poop.